My name's Matt Huston and I'm a world renowned dating coach and best selling author. I've been successfully helping couples repair their relationships since 2007 and have helped people in over 60+ countries all over the world.
The first thing I'd suggest doing is checking out this video on how to get your ex boyfriend back. In it, you'll learn how Beth got her boyfriend crawling back to her and went on to have the relationship she always wanted. A better, stronger relationship built on a solid foundation. Check out the video by clicking here!
Are YOU Making These 7 Common Breakup Mistakes?
Text Message Terrorism
"I miss you."
"What are you up to?"
"Can we hang out?"
Or any variation thereof. Sending your ex too many texts sends the wrong message. It says, "I'm available to take you back at drop of a hat". And that's not the message you should be sending to the guy who just broke your heart.
Do you go into emotional breakdown mode whenever your ex boyfriend is around? Maybe you constantly bring up the breakup or find reasons to pick and fight about it. Crying over the smallest things or lashing out in anger.
Stop immediately. This type of behavior isn't going to re-ignite the flame that originally attracted him to you in the first place and will only make you look immature and unattractive.
The Logical Fallacy
Trying to use logic and "reason" with your ex boyfriend isn't going to bring him back. Promising you'll change isn't likely to bring you the results you desire.
Just like a random guy can't approach you and haggle for a date. Attraction just doesn't work that way and if there are enough problems in the relationship to warrant a breakup, it's time to start taking a look at yourself and the things that have changed since you first started dating.
Being His Friend
This "tactic" can go several ways. You meet up with your ex under the guise of "staying friends" and then attempt to seduce or convince him back into a relationship. This will end with you either being "friends" with your ex boyfriend or the more likely scenario of becoming "friends with benefits". You want to be his girlfriend, not his booty call.
Being His Booty Call
As I mentioned above, this usually starts with the intention of "just being friends" but never actually ends up that way. You've got too much history and all a friends with benefits situation will do is give him somebody to sleep with while he looks for another girlfriend. Have more self respect than that and don't become just the girl who fills the void.
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